Tuesday, January 25, 2011

One fine day...

On a fine day like today, I decided to get some fresh air and some supplies from the local market. So I started out on foot, with a spring in my step and cheerful rhythm in my heart. As I rounded the corner of the street, I heard the screech of tires and suddenly a car drove very close to me. I turned around to find myself the object of scrutiny of the occupants of the car, who were three teenage boys. I regarded them with disdain for driving so carelessly and in turn I was awarded with boyish grins and nods and then the car drove off.
My, my...the encounter left me with mixed feelings. I thought I was old enough not to be swayed by such unwanted attention but frankly speaking I was oozing with self satisfaction at having brought a car full of teenage boys to a screeching halt! That does not happen everyday ;) Though I am sure I would not have received such warm acknowledgement had I been carrying my five month old daughter!
However, this incident did lead me to ponder over what really goes through the minds of today's youth. They have their fancy cars to drive, smart phones to flash, cool friends to hang around with, " romantic involvements" to cope with, use the internet for whatever purpose imaginable and find the time to throw in some educational endeavors. I am tempted to say that they have plenty on their plate but what troubles me is that in all these activities they have forgotten to find the true purpose of their lives. They do not know where they are headed nor do they care. Is it entirely their fault or is it their parents' fault who did not upkeep the bygone tradition of passing the wisdom from generation to generation. The wisdom of the ages is lost for today's youth and they are bogged down in frivolous activities that have rendered their senses numb.  
The country that this young generation has inherited needs an extreme makeover in not just politics but social, moral and religious issues. The country lies in tatters due to internal destabilization and external intrusion. It is always argued that this country needs strong leadership but my question is, "does this country have the appropriate followers?". When the populace is united and is ready to work together for its own good, then the much needed "strong leadership" emerges from within them. But where is the unity and where is the common goal? These are the people who can easily be led astray since they themselves are not sure which direction they  have to follow. They don't even care what the world's coming to, as long as they get to update their status on facebook!  The condition of today's youth leaves much to be longed for...

6 comments:

  1. well I totally agree with you that our youth nowadays have no goals in mind, and an almost meaningless life ... or to be precise they are like an aimless arrow ... shot from a bow , without a target to hit .... nowadays teenagers find satisfaction in having a nice ride .... expensive cell phones ... expensive clothes but senseless dressing ... one school thought would blames the parents ... that they should have controlled their kids ... But i don't think that only parents are to blame ... there are other forces that are driving the kids to this meaningless life ... and the most dangerous of all is MEDIA ... in today's world whoever controls this beast, controls everything .... on one hand they show you the ongoing miseries, and on the other hand they bring you the exciting world of entertainment and fashion ... and if anybody is given a choice to choose from the above the two they will definitely choose the so called lighter and brighter side :P ... there will be a time when all human beings will look same ... wear same ... everything including their interests.... and i am afraid the time is not that far ... May Allah forgive us and guide us to the right path ...

    ReplyDelete
  2. Being a 30+ old woman , i couldn't agree with u more, Arcane, but like my teenage brother in law says ,'Baji, aap ko kia pata mahol kia hai?'...wat do u know about being cool, sis?
    So lets not be too harsh.We have all been through this awkward age when one is not a child anymore but not yet an adult either.And as xHBKx so rightly pointed out that we never had such a strong influence of media on our lives.
    Here's hoping that our youngsters will come out of this maze of mirrors unscathed, to shoulder the burden of responsibility of adult life.

    ReplyDelete
  3. Walaa ta kho osa na budai ai, ou HBK ta dai kho usa na tooba ghwari...nevermind oh yeh iPAD 2 and iPhone 5 is coming, oh i hope this does not conflict with those bling blings you mentioned. and about tht teenage guys screeching you should have prompt accordingly the same way like screaming at them "walay da mour wadaa dai day sa"

    ReplyDelete
  4. lolz @ Jamal's comment ... :D
    well ipad2 aur iphone5 ke baat tu karain gai bhai ... those people who earn they can buy anything they want ... but the kids ... they dont deserve to waste their parents money on such expensive gadgets ;) think buddy :)

    ReplyDelete
  5. My dear Jamal I don't have anything against technology! I just wish that today's youth will fix their priorities in more meaningful goals and prepare themselves for bearing their country's conditions. And as far as screaming at those teenagers is concerned...I could not drop to their level could I? Budai o mashom k domra fark kho vi ka na :)
    Maria you are right in pointing out the pains of growing up and seriously the media influence can't be denied either HBK. There are many things working against today's youth but they must brace themselves and set aside fruitless pursuits.

    ReplyDelete
  6. No ta walay zan khuray da youth sta sa lagi? rukawa ai mara, da shay dair wakhta na rawan dai its nothing new ou umdagha ameer ou spoiled alakan kha jobs um oshe ou degree wala asay garze ma sara dair kha examples prout di witness box kai kholay shum if asked, da lekal chay thy need to change and religion, social ou da tol sizona asay khabaray di, um dagha pukhtanay geenakai derta islo kai okhayum chay asliyat ta rashe, ou chay amrikay ta laar she bya kho sum tite asliyaat khai, best sheez da dai chay goora comment kawa khanda pai enjoy kawaa senga chay za ou HBK kaow walaa dair khwand kai...

    ReplyDelete